I was a single woman who fell in love with a married man over fb. I found out that he was not divorced and broke it off. How do I get over the hurt?. I was a single woman at the time, when I got a friend request from a man over facebook. I saw that we had mutual friends who were my family relatives, and I assumed that he could have been some sort of distant uncle. However, I found that he was not. He added me because he thought I was beautiful. Later, we discovered that he knows my father, and is one year younger than him! He is classmates with my dads sister, my aunt! ON top of that, he told me he was divorced, and very lonely. So I would listen to him, and then I fell in love with him. Later on, I found out that he was married to my AUNT. Though she is distant, she is still family. Just for details, he lives in Australia and I live in Hawaii. So there was a huge distant gap, but we were workign that out.. Until..... I got a friend request from one of my cousins who I never met. Turns out that her mother`s sister is HIS WIFE!!! So yes, she is his wife`s niece!!! And she had visted Australia and stayed with THEM!!!! I then found out that he was very much so STILL MARRIED to my aunt, and I blew up! I confronted him, and he kept on telling me he NEVER LOVED her, and he loves me more than anything in the world. Need I mention, I am 20 and he is 43. So I stayed with him like an idiot. But then the guilt of being with a married man was eating away at my conscience so I stood firm and decided I was leaving. So I did. Now, we never met, but I still feel very hurt. I loved him very much and I know what I did was right, but I still feel hurt. so please, just any advice on my situation would help!!