Okay get this,.. I wanted so badly to be involved with this Virgo,so over the last few days he says he has been sick. Okay And we talked about how he was feeling,and I made a few suggestions as of to what to take. Okay,..After all that and a day would pass I left him messages of the sorted kind,and he finally called me. But he was obviously upset with me,and proceeded to lay into me about the messages I left. Yet,..the three days before he actually laughed about them,and then later turned it on to me as if I had hurt him tremendously. This was crazy. How could you laugh on one hand,and then get angry on the other? He went off on me,then now there is silence. He said that I disturbed him,and he hates to be disturbed when he is sick. He said he likes to be left alone. Okay I said, I am Aries. So I said I apologize,and in my heart I was not sorry for what I wrote or said.Actually I told him in the messages that i was not sorry for what I wrote,because I meant it. I cannot stand being uninformed about anything. If he would tell me what is going on,then he would not have been feeling as if I caused him harm or damage. So now I get no phone calls at all,and before I got my cell phone on,he always said that if I had it on he`d call. But that has not happened either. He gave me his home number ,..finally,YET,it does not work. I told him that I called him,and no one answered, then he says that, that phone didn`t work anyways. WOW!!! Why the hell give me a number that doesn`t work? Am I a joke?By the way he`s VIRGO! So now he says he is highly disappointed with me. UM,..SHould I disappoint him even more, cause I can! See,..I believe he`s lying,and he has never wanted to be with me as he claims, eventhough he says that he does. It`s been thirty years since I have seen him,and he lied to me about coming to the class reunion. Frankly I am tired,and when I get tired of somethong or someone I usually let it be known.I don`t believe in all this give him space crap,what are they,..head cases or something? All that need for space,here and there,telling me he wants to see me,then make up reasons why he can`t, then calling one day in a jovial mood,then go straight to nutty!WTF is wrong with them? I cannot do this anymore,and so I have to be straight to the point! I want out!

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Someone said: run while you can. I've been married to one for over 40 yrs. his answer is "NO" to everything. so passive aggressive, i have just found this out. he is a bad man who fakes being a good man.

Annebunny said: It's apart of their controlling technic. In order for them to control you they want to see how far you'd go for them, so theyll ignore you, be nice to others and try to make you jealous deliberately just to get a reaction. Virgos are controlling and like have domination over people for their own pleasure. Don't fall into the traps they calculatongly lay out for their victims. Go with someone worthwhile.

it means he is slowly falling for you

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Someone said: Yes Virgo pulls away when falling at least I have always pulled away when falling. But once restablished it usually works out. If not restablished it will burn out like a candle out of wax

Someone said: really? How is that? PLEASE do tell more?

Someone said: so I'm to believe that I might be over reacting, yet all of our discussions in person, and in texts, are very favorable. I got sick a day after our date, and he really wants to get together again he says, he says to get well soon. Hmm? does the virgp man have to be prodded with my advances to get him to get together again?

Someone said: I am a Virgo so know from my experience, Virgo`s pull away because they are unsure of ur relationships, they hide and think.. and give them time, it is better to develop relationships slower with them otherwise they will feel bad

pablo007 said: Ohhh, sorry but that's true . How dissapointing. but it can be reconsidered but take action. Useless you made something really bad. their;s no turning back.

A married man would fight for his mistress if he found the love and care he missed from his true wife. Some people call it a fateful mistake, as after all the love and marriage that happened along the way, some men surprisingly discover that the true love of their life is not their wives. If this has been a major problem in your family, you could sue your husband and get the right justice you deserve.

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..I got to say..Im laughing my head off at the Question, from Cancer girl about her Virgo ex IDIOT lol its Hilarious, you`re a funny woman :)) its made my night .. however ! Leave him ...and all the other Virogs who are making all you women feel the way you do Who the hell do they think they are..treating people in this cold clinical detached manner We all have feelings and get hurt and need ` alone ` time .. but not all of us treat people in such a disgraceful manner They`re just ` men ` and you`re all worthy of much more respect ... where is your self repsect girls? get tough ..get serious .. and tell them to GET LOST !

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Someone said: Seiously. They can get cold blooded. The sooner you stop thinking of him the better.

Someone said: The way I see a Virgo man is capable as being just as cold as a woman, they can also be just as loving and caring as a woman. But because virgo men are men they have a seperation between emotion and logic we dont decide with our hearts we decide with our minds and our hearts suffer for it. However they can hold negative feelings inside for long periods of time burried until something causes them to surface. Men in general arent good with emotion and virgos probably feel more and understand what to do with the feelings less than men in general. I'm not like most virgos however, my schedule is not planned, I have trouble keeping things tidy, while i like organization im way to lost in the clutter of the world and am more spontaneous than predictable.

pablo007 said: We can retain bad emotions very long so as good ones. Just make something bold and nice again, even tough we still are mad. Everything is considered.

yes... my virgo is doing the same to me right now... just give them space and don`t panic...

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I`m dating a cold aloof Virgo who never calls or texts and uses the excuse he`s busy with work all the time! Everything Is on his terms, wen we meet, we we talk on the phone. He never answers my calls n sometimes only txts bk after I have txtd his twice! I know he likes me but I dared his mate b4 I new him n my Virgo found out n said we can only be friends! But after I gave him space he started talking to me again. Ic not seen him fr 3minths and now were going to Spain fe work which us his idea as ge was going anyways so he invited me.so still confused if he wants to b with me after he got angry about me dating his mate or does he jus want to use me?

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Someone said: thats a tough one it could be either or, while maybe giving him space allowed him to clear his head he either cleared it and filled it with positive things about you or filled it with an ellaborate plan to use you. It really is hard to say with virgos, my guess is that he has both a good plan and an evil one in mind and will decide which one is his plan during the trip sometime. Virgos tend to look at many angles and over analyse so he probably has a few ideas in his head. He'll probably decide which he will go with based on he thinks things are going so whatever you cause he will most likely base which effect to choose

pablo007 said: ????????????////// It can be anything. but as you see times pass and you still are in his ming. Virgo man

because you are very old, and not attractive anymore, so throw yourself in, you understand?

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Only if they tell you and explain why. I am a virgo and had virgo, he used to call me sometimes three or four o`clock in the morning to say I love u. GOD I Miss HIM! He died. I would give anything to have him back. We were like best friends. I loved his flaws and perfections. I feel like it was some cruel joke for someone so perfect to be taken away so quick from me. He went through he`ll for me with his family and didn`t have to. So yes they love and they love hard when they do.

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does virgo men gets hert if his ex ignoring his phone calls

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I`m in the air force at tech school and I got some paperwork and now they took me out of school and put me on details whlie they make a decision on whether or not to keep me here. What are my options what can I do can I fight it because I only had 4 weeks left then I could graduate I want to return to class asap what should I do

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