i dont hate pretty women. I hate men that will treat me badly when a pretty woman is around, just because I dont fit his standard. I respect men that can hit on a pretty woman standing next to me, but still manage to respect me by including me in the conversation and not making me feel like crap. There is a difference between men that are not attracted to you, and men that feel that as someone ugly, you shouldn`t occupy space on this earth.

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Someone said: when do they treat u badly ??

can i help said: If a person does the best or at least put some effort into how they look (believe it, this shows others how a person feels about themself and is not neccessarily a vanity thing), then a person shouldn't even let it bother them about how pretty someone else is. The beauty of another person maybe the only asset that person has. Others possess something different (maybe more meaningful) that they may not be aware of but others can definitely see. It's O.K. to admire the beauty of someone else, but don't be jealous, wish you were them or dislike them for it. Everyone has qualities about themselves (either known or unknown to themself). But if one doesn't take of themself (obese, unclean, tatooing, piercing, scaring, attitude[ bad, negative], etc.) then they have accept the response from others and deal with their own feelings of others.. I heard that the goat is very slow to open up his/her feelings. They need time to get to know somebody before they do. From what I understand that once they do, they are very loyal. Just what I heard.. Generally they are in a real deep thought so that even their mind doesn't know what their eyes see. The person doesn't even realize what they are looking at. They are concentrating completely on their thought (like an intense daydream).

First you need to know if your husband really wants to be with you. You must first have a serious discussion with him. If he seems to still want this marriage then......Yes you can stay with him. Pray for your husbands ladies. Put him in the Lord`s hands and leave him there. Afterwards, you must stop worrying every time he leaves the home or if he`s doing something that appears to be deceiving. It`s time to put all that focus and energy worrying about your husband on the Lord. God wants to be first in your life. After you pray for your husband give the lord time to make and mold him into the man your husband is supposed to be. The change won`t happen over night. You must have patience and trust in the Lord that he will answer your prayers. If you begin to entertain negative thoughts that the devil will put in your head and have doubts, then you are just stopping your blessing from comming your way. You must have 100% full faith in the power that the Lord has to make this miracle happen for you. The Lord loves all you faithful wives for being strong and faithful servants for Him. Wives when Satan comes at you with negative thoughts rebuke the devil. Tell Satan he is a liar and that you will suffer for the Lord like all us Christian woman do. And as your going through the storm, no matter how long the storm lasts you`ll see slow changes in him. You see you`re not being a doormat you`re serving the Lord with Joy in your soul. It`s not your husbands who you all are at war with. This is a spiritual war; and you ladies are going though a test. While your waiting on the Lord to work this miracle on your husband, continent to treat your husband good the way the bible tought us wives. And watch as every good thing your husband does for you, will be a blessing comming to you from the Lord. Thank the Lord with all your heart and soul for every blessing. If you stand strong you will receive all your blessing that you`ve earned in the end. I don`t know specifically what you particular blessings will be, but the Lord can`t wait to give them to you, along with the ones he`s giving to you now.

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anonymous said: I have been struggling a lot at first to keep my faith after praying for my husband. I was feeling crazy at first like an up and down yoyo. But I continued to pray and grow in my faith. I asked the lord everyday for strength to suffer through the storm. Things are nor perfect but, I'm beginning to see some changes in my husband, I'm also keeping the lines of communication open with him. I see the small changes in him and he's starting to show that he cares for me again. Thank you so much for your advice.. What if the woman had kids with her husband? can she really just go and leave the father? your advice is helpful but do u think mabey you can give more detail with it? how do u explain to a child that mommy and daddy are divorcing?. What if you love this man deeply but he wont stop cheating?. If there are kids invoved then you have to really think hard on your decision. It's no ones buisness to tell you what to do. Weigh your pros and cons. Meditate and find out what the Lord's Will is for you and your marriage. I have never been able to think of an easy way to tell kids that their parents are divorcing. Depending on the child this could be life shattering for him or her. If you decide to devorce, be very gentle with breaking the news to the children. Just be careful in choosing your words. You know your children better than anyone. You and your children can recieve counseling to help get through it. I would suggest that you get it through your church. And I also suggest that you and your husband, if seperated give the children more love and attention than you ever have before. I'm sorry but I don't believe that there is any easy way to break news like divorce to children. But I will pray for the very best for you and your family.. To answer the question what if you love this man deeply but he wont stop cheating? First you need to dig deep and find out if you really want to stay with him. Then you need to find out if he truely wants to be with you. That's the first step, because it's a waist of both of your time if one person doesn't really want this. Marriage is hard work once someone's trust has been betrayed. Are the two of you willing to go the extra mile in hopes of restoring your marriage? If not then it may already be over. If you both really want this and is ready to make some real sacrafices then you can do this with help.. How about if you catch him texting some girl? Like do you approach him or the girl?. Your advice really does come in handy. You are a regular dr. phil!!. Yes i agree. A very intelligent dr. phil.. What would i do if i was the 1 cheating?. If he's caught texting, deal with him. He's the main source of that problem.. If you are the one cheating, then you need to dig deep within to find out why you feel a need to cheat. And deal with those issues. I believe that if you knew the deep psychological damage that you are doing to yourself, you may desire to find a healthier way to deal with your issues other than cheating. The day you said your marriage vows, you became one with your spouse. When you cheat you break that special bond and become one with whom you're cheating with while continuing to live in sin. this cheating also lowers your self-esteem and self-respect.. Is their a way to find out if he is even cheating? im curious if he is but i just dont know how to find out.. People need this advice and i think that u r a very good person on giving advice to others in their relationships. it would be nice if you responded a little faster.. Okay. she doesnt have to respond too quickly. th is woman is giving wonderful advice to women who cares.. If there's anything going on with your husband, then anything in the closet will be revealed in time. If your just curious then it could be just your own insecurities that you need to work on. Word of advice... don't go looking for something that's not there. And be carefull not to accuse him of anything without proof.

Someone said: 2011....for my new years resolution i want to stop cheating on my wife. what should i do? should i tell her?

Someone said: dec.7.2010, im haveing a crisis and the whole praying thing isnt working for me. its like he doesnt want to be with me but i love him. what should i do?

Someone said: i love this column! its awesome! question: are you married? if so are you happily married?

Someone said: Is there really a god out there to help me oout with men? ive had problems fro years and im ready to give up.

Someone said: A response to the cheating husband: It's always best to be open and honest with your spouse. But your taking a chance because she just may leave you. Maybe you could suggest that you two get christian counseling. It's much more effective than ordinary counseling. If you really want to change, please stop cheating no. Whether you decide to tell her or not, that decision will be totally up to you.

Someone said: A response to the person having a crisis with praying: You must have Full 100% Faith while praying and then give the Lord time to work on it. Don't loose your faith. Get help with keeping it. Talk to someone, if possible another christian who can inspire you. The very best advice for handling someone who doesn't want you. Let them go because you will be able to avoid a whole lot of pain. Love yourself enough to want to be with someone who wants to be with you just the same. Remember, the person has to want you just as much in order for it to work. Otherwise you're waisting presious time. May God Bless You.

Someone said: Yes I am married. I'm happily married because the Lord gave me joy that no one can take away. Every marriage has it's own problems. The key is how you handle those problems just like in life. You have the choice to live a positive happy life or a negative miserable one. The Lord helps me with all my problems, simply because when I pray I keep the faith. Then I see slow positive changes over time. I also praise God all day, and pray 3 to 6 times a day. These things keep you close to the Lord so that you can keep Him happy, and of course He keeps you happy. Remember to praise the Lord because He deserves it.

Someone said: A response to the one with men problems. It seems that if your having major problems in a certain area, that maybe it's time you leave it alone for a while. I would bet that it's causing problems in other areas of your life also. And yes there is a god out there to help you with men. But you have to get YOU together first. Put God first because he's a jealous God who does everything for you 247. Then, take 100% complete care of yourself while maintaining a healthy relationship with the Lord. Then not over night but in the near future the Lord will bless you with the right person. Have faith and take care of YOURSELF!

Someone said: Im responding to the faith in the lord thing....i have faith but god just not there....any other advice....o and btw im muslim soo.......

Someone said: o sorry i didnt mean to reply i meant to post a comment....my thing was the one above mine...im muslim....tahnx...please respond soon...

Someone said: Believing in God is faith. If you don't have faith, you can't believe in God. He is right there next to you just waiting for you to accept Him and trust Him. Stop doubting Him.

Someone said: For the Muslim, There was a time when all people were going to hell because of thier sins. Jesus went through all the pain and suffering on the cross for us cause he loves us so much. God sent his only begotten son in order for all us sinners to be able to make it to heaven. It seems like no one cares. We need to stop taking this real kind of love for granted. Believe that Jesus Christ died for your sins and rose again on the third day. No prophet can do this, only the true son of God can.

Reuel said: you are a christian do not just go and marry any man dude!!!!!

I have not come across any guy cheating on a good looking woman with an ugly woman but do know the answer for this. The reason being that the beautiful woman does not give the man what he is asking for or there has been a big fight between the two. The mans friend is either offered allot of money to do this as in most cases or is blackmailed into doing this sin.

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anonymous said: men that sleeps with fat women no matter how handsome the man has low self esteems............so inside he feels comfortable with a ugly girl.

Someone said: lets f*ck

can i help said: I was told by a guy who does this. He doesn't have to go out of his way to impress her because she feels low about herself so it's an easy, sure thing. The girl who is (I don't like to say someone is ugly), will jump at this chance rather than be alone. His words are "fat, ugly girls need loving too". Also these girls will have sex anytime you want and more often. These are his thoughts, NOT MINE!

yes she needs talaq from husband

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There is no dealing with a narcissist. They will never see you as you want them to, they will never feel bad for hurting you. Admit defeat and move on before you waist any more time on hope that in the end you`ll find was never there

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That`s an interesting question and will be helpful to many as many are not aware of it. It`s my pleasure to help you. Now it`s difficult to satisfy a man but it is not impossible, But this is only possible if freedom is given to wife to lust his husband or man . A man wants his wife to behave like housewife in the morning and as a girl friend when he is on bed. Satisfy him and try to give me much of attention which he requires and then he will not get attracted towards others but still man will remain as man with a bit of here and there…..

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That your marriage is at its end.

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jamesrogel said: he may just need some space. he loves you or he would not have married you so. he probley just wants to have some deffined space to fill him self out . if he is an artist or has a hobbi this might explain it or mabe you guys are polor opposites ,if you were you would know . you like diffrent things like my wife likes to watch tv all night i like to read thus we need some space. be worried when he moves out of the house good luck ladie

hes hiding what the other person has said

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I love my husband but he has became very jealous he accuses me of stuff.So oneday I went to his family and told him to divorce me so they acually went to sheik and all I wanted to do was talk I loved him so much and he loved me so much, right then and there he was like oh this is what you want he had me on speaker i said yes and he repeated those words the sheik said and my heart dropped so then after that he came back to me I took him back because I was in love and so was he But did the divorce acually count ?

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It depends on where you will buy the TV set and the brand that you will choose. But usually, the standard accessories included are the cables for connection and there is an additional fee for more accessories for the TV set if desired.

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