to the army wife,
do you get housing
bc if ur not in the army making 30k a year in most states,
you would not be able to make it!
especially with one persons income and 3 children.
in nj childcare alone is about 1000-1200 a month!
rent atleast 1000 a month.
what about food and other bills.
so i totally understand 3kids a house and one income of 60k is not A LOT of money at all,
they would def be struggling,
living paycheck to paycheck.
but to the guy with the problems,
after this many years of your wife feeling this way,
its gonna take a lot more then an apology.
right now hse is probably nu,b and shut down all of her feelings.
if you do seperate try to commiunicate with her,
remind her of the vows for better or worse.
right now shes at the "worse" part.
she may not be able to get over it,
but try and make her fall back in love with you.
remind her love is not just a feeling,
its a choice to stay in love,
by doing things to try and keep those feelins alive..