Uhm...I`m not sure if Anonymous is understanding the question or if I`m misunderstanding it.
But I have noticed narcissist are most comfortable with people who will not (not cannot)
will not upstage them.
They also require a lot of praise so they like the attentive type.
And because domination is the name of the game--including conversations--they prefer people who will listem to them talk on and on about you know who.
In addition to that if their grandiose isn`t too over the top,
you need to be attractive because their egos are fragile and being looked down upon isn`t their cup of tea,
but you cannot be so attractive you steal the light from you know who.
But more than anything if you want it to last never go too far in any one direction,
keep just the right amount of tension in the relationship and know how to comfort amd caress them.
And this a big wide,
if you`re not prepared to be the 7% while you know who is the 93% don`t even waste your time.
And if you`re the type of person who really likes to solve interpersonal issues and grow---just keep it moving because the narcissist is rarely (and I`m talking skin still on the cow rarely)
the Narc is rarely wrong.
Which is far from the truth,
but when you hook up with a Cist life is no longer about truth and reality,
it`s all fantasy and pain.
Take it from me Solomohn Ennis.