My husband left me and his 12 year old son and lives with mistress? - My husband (married 12 years, together 17 total) moved in with his mistress March 2011. 3 years ago a girl called claiming he was myhusbands daughter from a HS girlfriend at age 17. We had a DNA test and she is his. She to got pregnant at 17, was divorced, has 3 kids and is a stripper. We accepted and met her and even sent money. I have a son 18 from a previous marraige. When he became a teen my husband got jealous of him and the fact he was headed for college and had opportunities he never did. He came down hard on my son who rebelled by hiding in his room. My husband wanted to send my son to live with his Dad. My son kept to himslef, it was my husband who put me in the middle. My husband basically started saying "my house, my rules" and never "we". He wanted things his way and I wanted my family intact as did my son want to coninue to stay in our area and his HS (he is an honor student and worked and played sports). We`ll, myhusband began visiting his daughter by himself. He took a job that traveled to NC also. In the fall he decided he wanted to "buy a condo" for an investment 2 miles form our home. He suddenly moved into it in March. Turns out he was having an affair with his HS girlfriend and daughter`s mother since April 2010. He moved back for 3 weeks in July but said "He knew what 17 years was like with me now wanted to try with her". I could not believe this! He moved her into the condo 2 days later. It is 5 months later and she does not work, theyhave taken 2 texpensive trips and have a 3rd planned in February. They gamble, and he has gotten 3 large tatoos (never had one before), traded his Mercedes in for the classic Red sports car Mustang Shelby. He calls often and comes over stating "I miss you and my son". Our son wont visit his condo with the mistress living there..they see eachother a few hours every week at the house or go out. I took him to court and receive spousal support and child support. Divorce has been filed but he is not pursuing following thru as he will have to pay me and is short on funds now, and I think he is realizing the grass is not greener. I am college educated, have a good job, active mom, and was a loving wife who rarely denied her husband of any need. He is needy and craves affection, hasd few friends, is very impulsive, contolling, angry outbursts, and seems ti be spiraling downward. Whatis wrong with me? I miss the husband I once had until a few years ago and can`t beleive he left me! What are the chances he will wise up, could he be mentally ill, lovestruck by attention and need or what? He threw his whole life down the tubes and they only have each other 24/7. :: Ask a Question Get an Answer For Free

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