many times a man will resume the affair.
I have been there,
Accountability is vitally important.
The man must be genuinely sorry,
and must have a very reliable person who will hold him accountable for an extended period of time.
his wife must have free access to his cell phone,
and all passwords.
There can be no secrets.
if you are not #1,
you are devaluing yourself.
I am a man who committed adultery for almost 2 years and broke it off and resumed if several times during the course of that period.
Now my wife and I have total accountability in everything,
and I don`t give her any reason not to trust me.
I don`t even put her in the position to wonder where I am or what I am doing.
Life is too short and you are too valuable to live wondering if your life and marriage is going to fall apart.